case 1-
woman: hello..hye..u tgh buat ape..
man: hye.. i x buat ape2 pun.. napa call?
woman: saja je call...
man: la u yg call i..u nak ape?
(notes: no need to reply her like that. she calls u because she miss u and want to hear your voice. Because she thinks bout u. bout your day, bout you health, etc. Please guys, be more gentle!)
case 2-
man: hello..are you ok?
woman: im not ok....i have a problem..
man: what is it?
woman: hmmmm....hmmm... its ok, xde apelah..
man: pulak dah..td kata ada problem.. u selalu mcm ni.. lambat nk gtau problem u..susah la i mcm ni.
woman: (silent)
(notes: when woman silent, means die touch with your words. guys, woman cannot tell you when u guys in rushing and force her to speak. what the woman need is your soft voice..your pujuk! utk lembutkan hati woman yg tgh risau tu. kamon la guys, jgn paksa dia lg utk cerita. i noe you guys care bout your woman but its not the way. lagi susah kalo pompuan tu merajuk. be nice to her, pujuk them with your soft voice.. and after she calm, then she can story mory her problem! easy! and please dont perli her when she's in upset mood..)
dear guys,
dont blame your woman if she act like case 2. Because these facts:
1) woman doesnt need you to find a solution to her problem.
2) woman need you to calm her down, to borrow your shoulder.
please guys, be her 'sapu tangan' ! not her 'solver machines' !!!
dear guys,
i know you guys really hate tears and merajuk things. facts:
1) woman born with a sensitive heart.
2) woman easily touched to your rude words, to your unsponsored words!
its true sometimes you guys only joking.. but is your woman turns out to merajuk.. nak buat cane gi... pujuk la kejap.. nnti cair la tu.. i bet you woman can be easily melting with your soft words. tp kalau your woman nak merajuk sampai seminggu..susah le~ jarang jumpe pompuan merajuk advance2 ni. although she's in period pun..xkn punye merajuk lama2.. gives her YOUR FLOWERY2 WORDS...hah! cair la jap lg.. senang je la..jgn la emo2 ckp susah. hish!
dear guys,
for case 1, be gentle la beb! tu je!
assalammualaikum,
7A713 The Orbit